Wednesday, September 24, 2014

When a strange place must become home…

Traveling is a very nice activity, we all have a special country or city we would like to visit someday or maybe we would like to live in. Nevertheless, it’s hard to leave our country (even our own city) and venture to live in a new place. In psychology, some related phenomena have been defined and one of them has been called “culture shock” or “traveler syndrome”.

The culture shock is defined like a personal disorientation that a person may feel when facing a new context (new country, new culture) and has to experience a new way of life. Four phases have been described in this phenomenon:

 - Honeymoon phase: in this first moment, the differences are seen like nice and interesting. This period lasts a few weeks and the person feels delighted with new places, new food and new way of life.

- Frustration phase: this second moment appears around three months later, when the individual feels anxiety about the differences between the old and new culture. The people in this phase usually experience some changes in their circadian rhythm, and may get sick. The most important factor is the feeling of loneliness and lack of communication only worsens that sensation.

- Adjustment phase: after some time, between six and twelve months, the individual begins to adapt to new customs, adjusting his behavior to new culture, because he has learned more things about it. This adjustment allows the individual changes his attitude about the new culture, because he feels everything makes sense. 

- Mastery phase: in this moment, the individuals feel ready to fully participate in the host culture. It’s like a bicultural phase, because there are elements from both old and new culture in the person’s behavior.

I have never experienced a culture shock, because I have always lived in Santiago and every time I went to other cities or countries only for vacations.

What about you?


J

Wednesday, September 3, 2014

My best concert ever!

I still remember when I knew that VAMPS confirmed their concert in Chile. It was May of 2010 and I ran to buy my ticket, but I had to wait until November to see them. I was expecting the opportunity to see Hyde live in concert since 1998. He is the vocalist of my favorite Japanese band, L’Arc~en~Ciel, and I never imagined that dream to come true. It finally happened and I had to be there.

VAMPS is a Japanese band formed by Hyde (vocal), K.A.Z. (guitar), Jin (keyboard), Ju-ken (bass guitar) and Arly (drums). Hyde and K.A.Z. came from other bands and they join in this new project in 2008, while they left in stand-by their original bands. Nowadays, they are still working in VAMPS project, but they have their own bands at the same time.

The day finally came (November 6, 2010) and I arrived at Caupolicán Theater approximately at 5 p.m. The concert was starting at 8 p.m., so I had to wait a while with my friends. When it began, I was so excited and happy… I sang aloud every song that Hyde sang and I got a plectrum that K.A.Z. threw to the audience. I still have it J


The next two or three days, I was voiceless and my throat hurts a lot, but it wasn’t in vain! I enjoyed this concert more than every other. And the best thing was share that charming moment with my lifetime friends.